I'm on my 3rd round of strep throat & back on antibiotics. Can't seem to shake it, seems my immune system is at an all time low. Stress of legal issues, 2 interventions with older son, etc., had an effect.
Back in the saddle though, S18 is in his 3rd week in college, one individual mediation under my belt & somehow feeling pretty good about my life.
I never really got why there was so much negativity about Lawyers, jokes, etc., until now. H's L has been pulling so many dirty tricks. The latest was sending a list of what their camp is passing on to the mediator, putting a false filing date & not including H's 51 page mistake. It passed by my L's, but I caught it & had it submitted for his review. This is costing a fortune on both sides & my retainer is shrinking rapidly. They did include a credit card payment insert, & I'm tempted to put some of mine on there, since he pays for it...not sure which way to go on that.
H wanted to rush this thru before his next trip. Didn't happen. He left for over a weeks competition on Saturday, missing his scheduled time with S7 & making that 22 separate vacations with a total of 148 days since we separated. Mine is running 0/0 .
Still on n/c, although I had to drop off S7 at his soccer game & see him Saturday. I went off to sit the period after pictures until the game & H brings me a book he's reading, "to give me something to do." Non-fiction, 1st paragraph begins, "I was only 3 years old & my sister 7 when our parents divorced. It left us with insecurities & confusion." Seems there was a message there...who knows, I'm not interested in guessing.
@Kat>>>"Still sounds as if he doesn't want to let you go. He just has to have you in his life. The question is why? He can't let go and so he has to make your life a living Hades. Sorry that this is still going on."
Thanks, Kat! Not sure what he has in mind. It certainly has been a long time though. Sheesh, would prefer for him to leave me alone now.
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