Could use some support

[M-Jo]

Been a while since I have posted. I have done well at GALing and detaching, and W and I haven't spoken in over a month.

A while back I mentioned Retrouvaille to her. She said she knew she "owed it to me" to know that we tried and it didn't work out. Yesterday she emailed me and said she would sign up to go to Retrouvaille, but it was not so that we could get back together - she does not want that. She does want closure. Her biggest hesitation is that she is worried I think "this will fix us".

I don't know how she could say she would be going in with an open mind and heart after saying that, so I don't know if this will even matter. I really don't think I want to go if she isn't open to it working. I also don't understand why she would want to go if she is only looking for closure. Their website clearly says it is a program for saving marriages and doesn't mention anything about closure.

Do I think it will "fix us"? I don't know. I know that I am fixing me and that is what I am focusing on.

Maybe someone with Retrouvaille experience could help. Would it just be a waste of time?