Thanks for the post, very helpfull and on the same track I thought of. I am going to play coy and just be myself. She seems receptive to at least wanting to try being a family now...Our Wedding Anniversary is 2 weeks from today...Maybe she is thinking of that.
Maybe she is just down and needs me to pick her up again...she starts her second job soon and that will be it for her free time. Her savings acct is at zero and her other acct can't keep up w her debt at the current time...
I'm sorry you have just become seperated...My W wanted to file for D right away but I was able to talk her out of it...If I hadn't we would be done right now...
As far as the women are concerned, they all know my sitch and also know I'm not looking for a committed relationship...But they do like to have fun!!! They have helped me out tremendously w myself esteem and my willingness to Gal. And now I'm at another cross roads in my head...If I'm trying to get back w my W should I keep all the ladies? I would at the drop of a hat, tell each one thanks and walk away...IF my WAW would do that too, along w no more FB and texting other guys...which I know she could do...if she wanted to...Which I hope isn't too far away. On the last outing w the kids and I, we talked about one of my friends whom broke up w his GF of 2 yrs and how they reconciled and are happier than ever...She commented "thats great!" and looked at me w a smile...
Keep your chin up and walk proud...We'll get through this!! And We'll be a lot stronger and smarter too...
