I don't see anywhere in Coach's scenario that you are in the water. How do you know how deep it is? W told you that ?
Coach said she is trying to pull me under.
We've probably extended this analogy as far as practical.
You're right. If it happened in the bathtub I would grab my daughter and ask the wife to get her a$$ up.
Suppose it was a high end Japanese toliet?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.