I don't understand why making changes to save the relationship is a BAD thing. Why is it bad for me to make changes because YOU want me to and I WANT to make those changes because I want YOU to be happy in our relationship? OUR relationship is IMPORTANT to me and I am willing to do what it takes for it to work.
Does anybody think that I WANT to put in extra hours at work in order to get promoted and make more money so we can have a BETTER life and W can stay home with the kids, because that is a better life for them? I don't WANT to work that much, but I make a choice to, just as I choose to make changes to better the relationship.
Am I just out of my mind? I THOUGHT I was doing the right thing.
Kind of hard to SHOW her anything right now as we have very little contact at all.
Going to start reading Hold On To Your N.U.T.S. tonight.
