Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
Kat, they unwind with me for an hour and then they are supposed to get the homework done with the sitter so STBXW doesn't have to worry about it at 6:30 p.m. when she gets home.

Let me see if I've got this straight: They're with you for an hour EVERY day, their homework isn't getting done, so you're just going to let it be the sitter's responsibility????? WTF???!!!

Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
I am going to wait and see though before calling and saying anything. I don't want to spend the next 10 years playing "gotcha" when something goes wrong.

How long are you going to wait and see?

Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
As the homework gets more complex for the girls I'll be the one better equipped to help.

Oh, my fault. Gonna wait until it gets more complex .....

Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
I'm not rooting for the kids to fail. I'm just saying it's nice to see "consequences" sometimes.

I am all in favor of consequences, but NOT to the detriment of the children. CTH, you may not want to admit it, but you'd love to say "I told you so" to STBXW, "Here's what you get for divorcing me." But you're not ready to admit that.

You've got a lot of mirror work to do .....


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