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That or too much time on his hands!

I got talked to about mentioning the neighbor next door incident to a client that I talk to. I can't talk about a lot of thing it seems. Not anything personal I guess. So it will be mostly you guys that get to hear it. Aren't you all lucky??

I feel bad now. It wasn't about me and I do live in a good neighborhood. Just this one bit of excitement.

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I love that commercial Kerry. The first time I saw it I spit soda out my nose. You know how bad that hurts!!


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So feeling on shaky ground emotionally though I let it out a bit last night. Everyone needs to release that pressure. I just felt so alone. I chatted with a girlfriend that lives in FL and has a child that is ill. She said it was so nice to be able to help someone by listening to them since so often her conversations are about medical treatments.

I am blessed by the friends I have. I just wish she was closer. Ok so time to shake it off and get strong again...at least on the outside.

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(((((((((((((((((((((Kat)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Hugs to you sweetie. I'm sorry you are feeling emotionally shaky right now but it is certainly wonderful that you had a friend to call and talk to while you were so down. It is hard when they live fare away though isn't it? My BFF lives on the opposite side of the country and is in nursing school so we have a hard time connecting.

Hope your day is pleasant!


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That means so much Mish! Thank you. You know how you just bottle things up until you can't any longer? That is where I was/am. Everything hit...work, my boss, the accident, even my ex getting remarried and how unfair that felt.

Trying to stay balanced and I have had a good morning but my boss isn't here so maybe that is why. He will be in soon though.

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Put on your beautiful cheery face and head him off at the pass!


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Hmmm...maybe it is something in the air - I have had the same rough time the last couple of days. Felt like throwing a real pity party for myself. I have been so focused on the whole unfairness of my situation - I mean like how long does it take for karma to come back and bite these WAS's in the a**. Seriously though, I have been in the dumps and understand how you feel. I keep trying to refocus on what is good in my life instead of all the negativity but admittedly I have not been very successful. I hope we both get back on the positive track sooner rather than later.

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Wow the cheerleader needs a cheerleader! Thanks Mish.

BA- I haven't really been focused on him or his new life but it just is all hitting. I don't have all this astrology stuff figured out like Ali does but this is the time of the Grand Cross and it is hitting me just as predicted. Just checked today to see what areas are "hit". My Communication and Day to Day work are 2 of the areas afected. Yikes!

Got to work through this.

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My boss just asked if I was having lunch with my parents. I said I didn't know since I haven't talked to them. He says "that is kind of unusual isn't it?" I replied that it was but I think my dad is still mad about the car even though it wasn't S17's fault. Should be interesting with S17's birthday this Saturday. Then I threw in about how I hate conflict so I have been avoiding that trap.

Maybe it will get him thinking too.

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My Mom just called and asked when lunch time was for me. I told her. I could tell she was a bit tentative in her voice but I am ok. I know I didn't do anything wrong and If I had gone to do the errand it might have been me. Stuff happens. You do your best and sometimes someone still rains on your parade. Make sure you take an umbrella!

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