I just can't take it anymore

[james217]

Right. I am probably as guilty here as anyone. Should have paid more attention to her. Just thought everyting was OK and took it for granted. I guess I did know there were things she wasn't happy with, but there were things I wasn't happy with too. I just looked at them as sacrifices made for the marriage.

Thanks for your insight James and good luck with your newfound relationship! I'm sure I will get beyond this. It just may take a little more time.

yea you will man. trust me you will. the thing is by the time your spouse gets to the point of explaining they are usually so fed up they think your changes are to soley save the relationship. the Rs that are saved are the ones by people who are able to show their SPOUSES that their changes are permanent and to better themselves whether or not they still have the R