Perhaps I'm a bit odd, but I don't have friends that betray me. I don't have friends that lie to me. And I certainly don't have friends that are actively trying to break up my kid's family. I've read too much research that documents the effects of divorce on children to sit and play nice with someone that is compromising my kid's furture.
I can be civil even to people I despise. It takes some work though.
I'm a man . . . But I can change . . . If I have to . . . I guess . . .