I wish patience and time alone would heal my marriage, but that's not guaranteed. I've read in numerous forums, articles, etc... that the majority of people experiencing a mid-life crisis all seem to read from the same 'script.' - i.e. "Projecting blame, want/need to escape, ILYBINILWY, and the list goes on... If that's true, and it does seem to be an eerily accurate portrayal of my MLC wife, I guess I just wondered where's the Almanac that shows me how to predictably/successfully navigate my marriage back to calm waters.
Looks like you are still trying to figure it out. Are you an engineer by trade? Just wondering.
Mental - everyone is different, every sitch is different. You really cannot figure this out.
You know sometime we talk about MLC like it is something that can be clearly defined and figured out. It almost like if he or she does X in month 6 of the bomb then in 16 months the following will happen. Sorry to say it does not work that way.
Stop looking for the magic bullet will ya. It does not exist. Do you know what does exist?
YOU
So focus on what does exist and leave the rest to God or Budha or the Universe or ....well ya get my point.
BTW - do you have a headache? All of this think about her and when and what if...must give ya one.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
