To me a friend is someone I can call up and make plans to do something. Enjoy spending time doing similair things.
I personally will not be my stbxw "friend". I am friendly towards her and wish her happiness but that's b/c she's the mother of my awesome two kids.
W's mom talked to me a few weeks ago about being at her place for S3 birthday party. Saying to me that she didn't want me to have regrets for not going.
I told her I had a party for him that weekend too and I didn't miss out on anything.
So decide what you want and work towrds it.
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