On two ends of the world..

[KellBell0820]

This makes sense. It's my problem too. I let my emotions fuel my reactions and that's not the way to go. Today (as opposed to yesterday or tomorrow . . . or probably 5 minutes from now) I actually kind of like that me and H haven't spoken. It's giving me time to learn and figure out how to fix my own problems. It's teaching me a lesson about my controlling behavior as well. I wonder about the testing too, I can't say that me and H had good days, but over labor day weekend and the days following he called quite a bit (I think my count was 4 or 5 times over a 4 day span), that's more than he's contacted me in a while. Now I haven't heard from since Thursday.