What an idiot I am. I asked her this morning about the other costumes, and it turns out that they screwed up and shipped somebody else's order with it. It says right on the label that it was supposed to ship to someone in Puerto Rico!

So, I got all bent out of shape for nothing. Lesson learned here.

We had a good talk this morning about schedules for us individually, and the kids. Also talked about timing of selling the house - waiting until Spring to increase our chances of selling, getting it in shape to sell, and also minimizing the disruption to the kids - especially our HS senior. It was a very civil, intelligent, matter of fact conversation. One step at a time, and one day at a time.


Me: 46
WAW: 43
M: 8.5 yrs, T: 9.5 yrs
Best friends b4 marriage: 2 yrs
EA/PA: 8/10
Told me she doesn't love me anymore: 9/2/10
Kids: 2 stepdaughters: 17,15, Son: 6