I totally agree with Lance on this. Truth dart absolutely. I am sorry you are feeling down about this. I think looking back you will see that this is part of this BS. I tend to have moments with my wife like this and then realize sometime later that they have to be reminded where you stand. I think I will have to keep reminding my W through instances like that so they don't loose track of what is important for their family. They are not going to get enough of that info from outsiders now will they?

Know what I see P? This is just my opinion.
I see that he doesn't want to face his SH@@ and YOU won't make me
either nanya nanya nanya.

So.... he lives life miserable and full of guilt until he does.
Thank God you don't have to live with the guilt. I know you know all of this anyway but this is how I am looking at it. If you tell me I am full of it, that's ok too.