Since about a month ago, H has wanted to give our M a 'chance.' We are living a day's drive apart, in different countries. We've spent five days together in the last month. In about three weeks we'll be spending another five to seven days together. We talk on the phone every day and skype. I'm doing my best not to bring up R talk. I try very hard to let him initiate contact. Sometimes I can't help myself, but I'm getting better. I want this to be on his terms, so I'm really laying off the pressure. Does anyone else have experience with piecing long distance? What sort of challenges are presented? My biggest fear is him meeting someone else while we are in such a rocky time. How do I quiet these fears?
