My opinion on this is that you should not explicitly state that you will "Not Be Friends" . If she asks the question then just say sure.
Where's the "thumbs down" button?
Seriously, passive-aggressive doesn't work for me.
It's actually healthy to tell people what your personal boundaries are.
"Look, we're not going to be buddies. For the life of me, I can't imagine being married again and having a wife who says 'let's invite your ex-wife over for dinner', Honey.".
Not realistic, not going to happen. That's just how life is.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/14/1002:54 PM.
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