So you are being a good dad, working on yourself and still you are in limbo. Your wife has walls up to protect herself, you going to storm the castle or attract her out to see what you are up to? Start moving on. Become mysterious. Flirt for the sake of flirting. Make people glad to be around you, radiate warmth and let your charisma flow. Your wife is watching you.
Be catnip.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
