Glad to see an update Trying - you fell off the face of the earth for a while!
Good to hear that you are doing well. I can see my own situation playing out like yours, as I totally see my wife panicking when she gets the paperwork, but being too proud to make any effort to save the marriage.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09