This time I won't even try to get her back. It's like when you were little and you split a sandwich in two to share with a friend. You always handed them the smaller piece but just to be sure you took it back and compared it again then handed it back and said 'here and no backsies!' Well, I'm giving STBXW back to the world.
LOL!! Bet on your wedding day you never imagined comparing your stbx to this sammich division!
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
I mean we are some of the few who keep at it and try to change things for the better instead of giving up, getting revenge, or just tossing our marriage out like used goods and trading in for a new one... I like being in this kind of minority.
Me, too. It is very commendable. And we can say we tried.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
And I am talking out of approx 100 stories. The group we have on FB is indicative...
I am thinking about joining the alt. How do I find all you wonderful DBers?
Originally Posted By: SDFoundGirl
It also helped that my H was in a ONE sided EA (she wasn't interested in him, but there's no way she didn't realize he had feelings for her...she liked the attention, ho that she is)
Last part made me LOL, SD.
Originally Posted By: oldtimer
Also, too often when reconciliation does happen, there is so much guilting, so much blame and shame, that the WAS can't even tell if he/she wants to return or merely feels like he/she should. There is a big difference.
ITA. Guilting and blaming someone are not the ways to reconcile a R.
