MLC spouse projecting their negativity onto the BS

[Truegritter]

I wish patience and time alone would heal my marriage, but that's not guaranteed.

That is why you have to find it within yourself to do this.

What are you willing to do for yourself first.

What are you willing to do for

your M?

and your W?

and what do your vows mean to you?

and what does love mean to you?

If

you are not guranteed of healing your M or getting your W back?

I guess I just wondered where's the Almanac that shows me how to predictably/successfully navigate my marriage back to calm waters.

There is an Almanac radio.

First page reads: "The answers to all your questions. Are within. Look inside."

Page two reads: "No really. Look inside."

THE END

(And a nickel to whoever Mach stole this from)

I promise you Radio in time you will realize that this is the only answer. Your M was broken. Both of you were broken.

This is an opportunity for both of you.

She has to go on her journey and you on yours.

If she came back right now you both would fall back into your marital and personal dysfunction.

The sooner you acknowledge that, the calmer the waters will be...