HT,

I am actually okay with the sitch as it is. She didn't immediately go out and get an attorney and allowed emotions to die down a bit before pulling the trigger. I sort of think and slowly coming to full agreement that this is the right thing to do for both of us. I wish we could have worked it out, but I realize that I hurt her too much two years ago and it was a hurt that was not repairable.

I will hold my head up and be above board on everything and not start slinging mud. If the D is meant to be it will be done with dignity. I know that it is not over till the fat lady sings, but I can see her in the wings and she is rehearsing her aria.