Hi awest, if you had come across my posts to others you would know I am one of those that say, keep it polite and easy for the kids' sake. BUT, from my own experience, dont be friends with him. Nope. Be friendly, polite, easygoing, do not bad moouth him to S, be a little flexible when it is about time he can have with S, but that's it.
Cut him off your life. And decide to do so. When you set boundaries, keep it about boundaries. No personal talk, no emotion, no reasons for explanations and justifications.
I believe your H is young and stupid. I believe you can run the show.And you can have any ending you hear desires. K
