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I know I would feel bad and at least say I'm sorry. Guess maybe she's vindictive.


NO.....YOU DON'T KNOW HOW YOU WOULD FEEL! I would have bet the lives of my children that I would have NEVER, EVER done what I did.......

She's being judged and sentenced and she knows that. The LBS comes off as be very self-rightous to the WAS. (I just got through saying this to another poster this morning.) You want her to repent. You want her to be heartbroken with sorrow for what she's done. I understand that, now......but when "I" was the WAW, that wall of resentment toward my H was so high that it took a very long time before I could repent to him. The WAW has to work all of that out in her heart/mind and it is usually not going to be when she's busted.

She will probably be a little vindictive...now, but I'd dare say it is more resentment toward you that she feels.

I hear all these LBS say, "There is NO excuse for an A!" But, did not God tell the man to love his W as Christ loves the Church? I just have my first time to see a woman who is M to the perfect man turn to OM. If the WAW gave her side of the story it still would not grant her permission for an A, but it might be more "understandable" why she was left vulnerable to those conditions. I not talking about your stitch.....but in general.

You are angry. That's good. But, be careful what you do with that anger, okay?

Last edited by sandi2; 09/14/10 12:05 PM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!