Baby steps....I drove H to get his car this morning. He said, " Have a good day."
It was our weekly dinner tonight...shoes were off again, offered to help with dinner, got wines for us, took dishes over. Made conversation and told me 'stuff' from the news as well as family news. His b and sil will be here next week. I think he said, if you want to catch up with them but I couldn't quite hear. Last time they were here he had them for dinner but only invited the kids. then another time he took ow to lunch with them. Not sure I would get included because they might ask questions that H wouldn't be able to answer. Asked after my mother's health.
Offered to go to the hardware to get light switch covers and then fix them. Then suggested I make a list of all the jobs I need doing and he would work through the list. Wow!
After dinner helped D with study but she was tired so he's coming back in the morning to study with her before school.
These are all little things but I can sense that he is becoming more consistent.