HT,

Thanks, she said in her email that she has already spoken with an attorney and wanted to start the process. She ask twice if it was okay for her to begin the process. She will pay for her own lawyer. I recommended a Mediation Attorney since there is little legal action required: Pre-Nup, deperate financials, etc.

The only question that I have is, since she never contributed to the household financially and used all of the money for school and left with a sizeable chunck is there an angle to recoup some financially...I know it sounds vindictive, but she never paid a dime for anything because I was under the assumption we would as a couple be debt free...no loans and be better off financially.