Originally Posted By: Bobby
My thinking was she may come around in due time and if not papers could always be served later.


Be careful with this Bobby.

You are still in the stage of wanting to fix this.

Be mindful that your giving support financially is enabling her too.

Examine your motivation here.

My suggestion is that you agree on whatever she is to get from you with your lawyers advice if and until a final settlement is reached.

Draw that financial booundary and stick to it.

Rescuing her from her own choices is not your job anymore.

And it will not save your M.

This is the razors edge of the the LBS in an MLC. You must protect yourself and your family and let her go on her journey.

Be respectful, patient, and compassionate but also strong and firm in protecting yourself and your family.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am