I'm having a hard time with the emotion or lack thereof of WAS. When he first gave me the ILYBINILWY speech he was sobbing so hard he made himself sick. I actually sat on the bathroom floor with him and tried to comfort HIM! Since then he has had nothing to say about our M or R. It's like it didn't happen as far as he's concerned. 18 years of being together and he's acting like I'm gum on his shoe that he can't scrape off. I know he has feelings for me in there somewhere-I just don't understand how he can be so cold and remorseless.

Sorry she's acting like that.


M 45
H 44
no kids-one great dog
M 15 yr in Oct T 18 yr
Bomb 6/10 "I can't be your husband any more"