I have a bunch of people who work for me... WAH seems "overly concerned" about one such person who happens to be a guy who he has heard me reference (and the twins reference) over the course of the past 6 months or so. Twins know him b/c i bring them to work every so often. Fast forward to tonight - i took twins away for a Fri through Sunday getaway. This guy who works for me - his parents own a few houses on the water that they rent out for the summer season - well the renters were gone and he had offered it up to me as a get away. I took him up on it and went there with the twins. Had fun - all good (and no, he didn't show up - he's got a family of his own - totally platonic). Anyhow, when i saw WAH tonight, he asked about the weekend and i said it was fun, twins had fun, blah blah. Then he says - oh, was it his (coworker) house? i said, actually, it's his parents - they own a few houses on the water. WAH says "do they see him much" - and i thought he said "do you see him much" - which i thought was odd because the guy works for me - of course i see him all the time. So i responded - yes, i see him every day - he works for me. WAH clarified - no, do they see him much? I said, no - not at all. He then said - well, they seem to bring him up in conversation on a regular basis. Now, i think this is really odd. First, because they see him as much as they see my other coworkers. He's got young kids too - so perhaps that's why they remember him over the other coworkers who don't have young kids. Second, i think this was said to get a rise out of me...which it didn't. So, i responded - well, he does work for me and i do bring the kids to work.
The only reason why i find all this interesting is because if you really didn't care a darn about me, why would you care who i was keeping company with (so long as that company didn't negatively impact our kids)?? So, i'm viewing this as a good sign??
together 17 years married 11 years 4 year old twins he moved out May 2010
