Wife filed for divorce...Is there still hope?

[LSG]

DanF,

I loved it. Mine did not have the dryer. It was still cool.

[LSG]

Tonight went over for dinner at a friends. It was nice. They said a prayer for me. I meet with a recruiter tomorrow. I hope something will happen for me with a job again.

Thanks everyone for being here for me. I really need it. I will still go ahead with the apartment. I have no choice.

Thanks for everyone's best wishes and prayers.

My prayer and best wishes are with everyone too.

[Susan1Survivor]

Hi (((LSG))),


It's important to stay connected with friends~ They aren't as judgemental as family.
You WILL get a great job. Believe- have faith.

Recruiters are the best way to to go.The best job I ever found was through a recruiter.That's what I am doing now too. I was laid off in April. But I know I will find a better job soon, as will you.

Be good to yourself every day.~

Take care

[Espr444]

Hey LSG,
I hope everthing went well for you today. My thoughts and prayers are with ya. You will find a much better job soon!!
You keep up the good work I don't know when, but good things will happen soon.

No new news on My sisuation, just I saw someone who looked like OM the other day. It brought back a lot of anger & pain & more questions if its still going on!! Just when I thought I was moving foward. Well talk to ya later Hope

[idontunderstand]

Hey, LSG-

How are you doing?

Keep in touch and fill us in.

Take care of yourself. Don't ever give up!


IDU

[LSG]

Susan,

You are right I will get another job. The other job was just a warm-up for the right one.

I am talking to every recruiter possible, and I am becoming more optimistic. Everything will be okay.

Thank you so much for the positive post.

[LSG]

Hope147,

You have a great way of making me feel better at my worst times. I thank you for that.

Sometimes we regress in our sitches, but I think that is part of the healing process.

I believe that it does not "sting" as bad with time.

You are moving forward and do forget how far you have come.

Thanks for the kind words always.

[LSG]

IDU,

I am doing okay, but I am always stressed and tired emotionally. I do not have much energy lately. The only energy I have is consumed by finding a job and making sure me and the kids have a place to call home together. I will find a way to make that possible. It is my only concern.

So, I have been taking some time off from everything to find a job.

I have felt like I failed to same my marriage, so I wonder if it is the right place for me to be here anymore. I just don't know anymore.

I found out that my MIL will be staying with STBXW for 3 months. I am not crazy about that idea at all.

Not much I can do about it.

Wife does things here and there to make my life more difficult, but I am doing okay.

Next week will be a good one. I feel it.

You seem to be in a place in your sitch that is very difficult, but it is one you will come through okay. The LIMBO sucks, and the steps along the way are difficult, but as each one comes and goes, you do move on.

I find that I am close to the stage of the healing process for me. I have moved on, but I need closure, and it will that time for that to happen.

You will experience and cope with these stages in your own way, but expect the emotions to come. It will help you to deal with them better and have some understanding.

I feel your pain and anguish because I have been there, but you will be okay.

Give yourself a break! Don't be hard on yourself!!

You will be okay no matter what!!!

[Susan1Survivor]

Hi (((LSG))),

How are you? Everything will absolutely be okay, and then some!
You WILL get that great new job. It's out there waiting for you.

On Monday, I am going back to the same recruiter I used before. I am in the medical field, so the recruiter I use will help me get a job in that particular field. They narrow the search big time. The stress is high working in the medical field- with my D going on and having to have surgery and move out of STBXH's home, I think I 'd much rather be a florist in my next job!!!!


You hang in there and know that things will be looking up for you very very soon.

Take care~

[Espr444]

Hey LSG,
Hey buddy things will turn up for you! You have done great & you have also helped many people out on here. I'm finally at the point where I just have to let her go. I still have some hope but that’s just me; I'm not even sure what point I'm at anymore with the whole D process. I'm reading a great book called "finding forgiveness” Man this stuff is tough!!

I'm not on a whole lot as I don’t have much to say. Although I was on the infidelity section with Allen for a bit just to get some more thoughts & advice. I saw someone who looked like OM & everything came rushing back.
I wish you the best as good things will happen to you I do check in once in awhile & read; just having a hard time like everyone.

I know this is stupid but I even feel bad for W, cause I know in the long run I will learn from this and know I was not only I was faithful, but dealt with my issues/problems with the help of my IC.

However she has kept some of her issues bottled up. Don’t get me wrong we both had issues that lead us here, but I still wanted to work.
Sorry just babbling at least we have the little guys to keep us happy!!

Well take care & everything will work out for you soon!!
Later Hope