I've read it. I have been GALing my butt off. I was a homebody but I've been going out, having friends and fun, and am talking about rejoinig a kickboxing class (did it years ago and loved it). Its only since then that I have even gotten the friendship thing going. I'm not pursuing him, but I am trying to be his friend. That was how I got him to fall in love with me in the first place. I was his friend. I didn't pursue. I got him to open himself to me, and he fell in love with me for it. It was something no one else had ever done, or has done since. I figure since he is the one bringing it up (and he has, several times, I have not brought it up once [my reply to that was 'we shall see']) that is HIS subtle try at reconnecting with me. But I don't want him to think I'm pursuing him, especially now that he has made it clear he wants to just TALK to me again, without having to talk to me about 'us' and our situation. I do fairly well for a while then backslide, but never too far.
How do i find the balance between pursuing and encouraging a reconnection?
Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
