John I was just posting on your thread. I think at this point, I just need to do what works for ME. Which is to go darker than asphault. I am turning the custody over to the L so that will be handled by a third party since the W, who said she new that I would fight her on custody, could have just worked with me. But now she is being her "woman hear me roar" and being a b!tch. She knows that the kids need to see me, and she is just being difficult. So I will do what I need to do for me, and for my kids.
