If they say they are 100% done, with no back and forth.... Is there even any hope? Do I just let my marriage go forever? Am I going to look back an what if myself to death?
Don't believe anything that they say, and only half of what they do.
My W told me at 10:00am one day there was never a chance in hell we'd ever be together again, and she'd never ever want to be married to me ever again. I begged and pleaded her not to "write me off". She said she had, and had decided it a while back that there was no coming back to me, ever.
Four hours later, we were talking about working on ourselves so we could maybe give it a go again. She said there is so much history with us it would be good if we could get there.
Four hours after that we ML for the first time in 4 months.
Seriously, there is always hope. But only if you GAL first. You can't hang onto every single thread of hope, it will destroy you.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
