Well here I am now. Moved over from DBD

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Well nothing new six months post divorce but a few things I wanted to post on that have touched my mind.

I found some undeveloped film at the house and realized that it was either my Son's or my XW's so I decided to get
them developed. I got them back and realized that they belonged to my XW so I dropped them in the mail too her.

I got a call from her today thanking me for sending them too her. She seemed pleasant but she did not discuss
anything other than say say thank you. This was a 180 departure from the venome she threw at me the last time she

called me (I am in NC so contact is extremely rare). So it was nice to hear the civil and courteouse side of her
once again. Not reading too much into this though.

Now the scarry part: I currently have a GF (39, separated, 3 kids). This woman has told me several times that she
would like to bear my last name. I have told her time and again that I refuse to ever marry again and that I have
only been divorced about six months now.

But she still keeps bringing it up. And we have only been dating for about a month. I like the girl and I see a
healthy LTR there but she is really moving a bit too fast for me.

To muddy the waters even further, this woman has been separated for four years. She is going to divorce her
(cheater) husband but is technically still married to him.

Cheater husband pays no child support for his own Son and lives with his new girlfriend in some other town.
I advised her to seek legal aid about a divorce or at least child support from him. He has paid nothing for the past four years. I could not believe this when she told me that she actually would send him money for his gambling habbit. Im not making this up.

I really like this woman and she is really sweet but this situation kind of worries me.

I know this isnt a dating web site but looking for some opinions on this. Any yes I have read the rebound thread.