gr8 day 2B alive and soleil-You are both absolutely right. I am going to control my anger and let him go. It is hard but it can be done.

So my husband just shows up to the house on Sunday to see the kids. I am not going to lie he looked really pathetic to me. He told the kids that he is sorry that he has not been around. He told them that he has some things going on in his life right now and when he straightens them out then he will see them again. He told them that they can call him and he promises to call back. They then sat, laughed, and talked about school so far. Then he comes upstairs and starts laughing and talking to me like he did not just tell a week ago that he wanted a divorce. He acted like we were best friends. He began to tell me how he was struggling and that he was trying to fix things. He said he knew that I would not understand but there is alot of drama in his life right now. I told him that it was good that he came to see the kids and he left. After not seeing them for a month he stayed about a total of 30 minutes and that includes the 15 minutes he talked to me.


Me (32) H (36)
Together (12 years)
Married (3 years)
Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6)
Bomb dropped (November 09)
Seperated (January 29, 2010)