Im truly of the mind that he is done, and nothing I can do will change it. I want him gone so badly I can't stand it. It is to avoid the pain. He wants to be gone because living here is awkward and he wants to 'live his life'. His mother has asked him if he wa 'absolutely sure' and he says yes. Everything is just so... Wrong. How do you truly know when THEY are done? I do know, even when I'm emotional and mad, if he were to be truly ready to work, I would give it a shot. But how many times has someone been convinced that their spouse is done only to have them come back? There is no back and forth with him. No matter what happens or what I do or say he never expresses doubt at all. He is so focused on being over he doesn't stop to say 'is this the right choice'.
If they say they are 100% done, with no back and forth.... Is there even any hope? Do I just let my marriage go forever? Am I going to look back an what if myself to death?
Last edited by Ihavehope; 09/14/1002:02 AM.
Me 30 H 29 DC 9, 7, 2 M 4 years, T 6 years ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10 He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too Physically separating end of September
