Trust me, I do not want this woman in my life right now. It is very different here, here its called a "civil standby" it depends on different departments policies by jurisdiction, but most departments will not interfere with the parents unless there is just cause, or probable cause that the kids are in danger. Or again, unless a judge orders a peace officer to take in their possession a child and deliver that child to the other parent or guardian.
I called W's phone around 7:50 which is usually right before the kids go to bed. W picked up and handed the phone to S. The first thing he said is he wants to come to my place. I told him your Mother and I still need to discuss that but i will see him soon. I could hear W in the background, and she just sounds pissed all the time now, the anger in her tone is, well her problem. But i do worry about my kids being around that negativity. I can only imagine what is being said to my kids about me. One of her comments in her emails last night was I was never there for them before and I am not now. Of course this is totally untrue and she is justifying her "story" with that remark. I am a good father and provider my kids are still my focus, so the next steps are get my attorney to contact hers and get a little aggressive. It is out of my hands, and she will bring this on like donkey kong.
I was trying to be cordial and nice. I helped her move, I fixed things at her house, I feel I have done things that a bitter person who's W filed for D would not have done. So other than not leading, which is very obvious I let her do the driving, what else have I done wrong lately? I have shown confidence in myself, I am chipper I was very upbeat with the kids tonight on the phone which I am sure I was on speaker. I am beyond Dbing for the M anymore, but I will continue to do it for myself and my kids.
