New Thread - Same Sitch

[steady]

I hadn't thought about that Steady!

All that talk about "you can't control" and "let go" etc and here the WS is HOLDING ON to a SECRET - The AFFAIR

IF you are truly going to let go, you have to let go of your secrets too...

Out the A

Good point

The worst part about it Allen is they holding onto a secret in hopes that not to out the person will somehow make their 'maybe' reconciliation easier. How do they know outing the person to all those involved won't actually create a chance at reconciliation as well as make it easier? They can't possibly know it.

I have found the only way I can know I've made the right decision is based on what is best for me. If I'm trying to make a decision and I'm pondering the impact it will have on other people, the possible outcomes and consequences of my decision - with all the variables inherent in just those two (and there are many more) how the heck can I possibly know I made the best decision? If my yardstick is me, then I can know I made the best possible decision.

And I'm not talking about a "It's all about me and screw everyone else" selfish mentality here. I'm talking based on my own personal values, my boundaries, my code of ethics, my knowledge of right and wrong, etc...