Well, my sitch has changed.

I have been dark for 3 months or better now. I'm not sure if she is still w OM... but as of last week she wanted to start spending time as a group...All 4 of us. I offered this months ago but at that point she had no desire... I agreed and said it would be good to see what happens.

We have been together, as a group twice so far, brought kids school shopping and to dinner last night and brought them to the county fair last week. We all had a great time...on both outings

My question is how do I proceed with out screwing things up...play hard to get or just go w it and see what does happen...

I do still love my wife more than anything!!! I just don't want to make the bone head moves!!!

Thanks for you insight...