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The fact she is using the kids as a tool, gets me enraged


I don't know -- from what you have described-- that she's neccessarily using them as a tool.

It may be just as likely that her plan was this: "take kids, leave marriage, work out the rest as I go".

It seems obvious, especially in retrospect, that she planned on taking them with her and having as little involvement from you as possible.

Your job, Dad, is to be there for your kids. Do what you have to do within your legal rights.

Last edited by TimeHeals; 09/14/10 12:29 AM.
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