Right. I am probably as guilty here as anyone. Should have paid more attention to her. Just thought everyting was OK and took it for granted. I guess I did know there were things she wasn't happy with, but there were things I wasn't happy with too. I just looked at them as sacrifices made for the marriage.

Thanks for your insight James and good luck with your newfound relationship! I'm sure I will get beyond this. It just may take a little more time.