I just changed the topic of my thread. I feel it is more fitting. Maybe I should call it "my h is depressed and running, avoiding, self-medicating.... I could go on and on with topic ideas. I just find it so odd that he is letting this take over his life. But then again they are his feelings and his feelings are real to him.

I know that I cannot fix him and that he has to want to fix himself. I'm just so tired of him being rude c


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