I'm sure that if she knew the whole story she'd be appalled; she seems like a decent person. she was all about thanking me for allowing her to be part of the "grace and healing" going on back in the spring. but she'll never get the whole story--and believe it, at least not any time soon.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012