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Very interesting developments! I didn't know there was such a place to pour out our feelings, other than here... smile

Lucky you, Bahamas! I am sure it will be fabulous.


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And it was. Sun, beach, sand, lots of booze. Don't forget the sunburn.

Pix in the alt.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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AWESOME!!! Can't wait to see them!


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Yay!!!


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So I got the notification today...

I am officially dismissed from the bankruptcy.

Now I have two other issues left to take care of...I need to change my driver's license and my social security card back to my maiden name, and I can put this whole ugly mess behind me.

Whew.

In the meantime, I really like this guy I met and have been seeing...I think it is safe to say there is some definite potential. That is, of course, if I could get past the fear that somehow the other shoe is going to drop.

Lola will now commence to bang her head on the desk and try to clear the cobwebs...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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No banging your head allowed! All that really does is create a big headache and a horrible red mark on your forehead! LOL

Loved the pics from the cruise!


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Hey Lola, glad things are going well. What is this about the show? You would actually agree to go on a show about the story of your marriage? WOW!!


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When you say you are dismissed from the bankruptcy are you meaning that you didn't have to file or that your case is now discharged? There is a difference and I wanted to get that cleared up.

Glad you had a good time on your vacation. Any more word from the producers of the show?

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The bankruptcy has not been discharged. SG still has to make the Chapter 13 payments, although I am not sure if they will submit a new plan excluding the car, or how that is going to work. Frankly I don't care.

I was the co-debtor, so I have just been removed from the bankruptcy. My part is dismissed. This means I will not be responsible for any of his debt, just my own. I can handle that since the majority of the debt was his to begin with. Now I need to wait, rerun my credit report, and contact the few creditors that are mine to try to settle the debt out.

I also heard from the company doing my student loan consolidation, and everything is in place. They will pay off my loans, and roll them all over into one payment, which I will begin paying in 30-45 days. So that is also set. Financially, things are starting to look up.

I did hear from the show, and it seems that they will only use both parties involved. Since I know the SG still will not admit to the affair, I think it is safe to say that they will not be using me.

Yes Kal, I would have talked about it. My goal was that if just one person who was considering an affair could see the repercussions of that action, and maybe change their mind, then maybe one marriage could be saved, one family could be saved, and a whole lot of pain could be avoided. It was a way to turn a bad experience into possibly doing someone good for someone else. But I think it was just not meant to be!


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Glad to hear everything is going so well!

YAY about the dismissal.

Awesome about the guy. I am also still waiting for the other shoe to drop LOL. I swear my M gave me PTSD haha.

Too bad about the show. But ah well. I definitely am willing to share my experiences with friends and on the boards, hopefully it helps and spreads out from the circle.


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