Well...something simple like "hey, sorry I've been grumpy/irritable/b!tchy (or another adjective of your choice ) I've been having some bad dreams and it's been hard to shake" would probably be good.
As for your dream, I agree it's your insecurity. Isn't it weird how when things feel the same (i.e like the M) it freaks you out? I've been noticing I'm struggling with that too, everything feels so comfortable with Roger that it freaks me out. It feels a lot like my R with my XH did, and so it makes me so nervous. But the funny thing is I'm happy, he seems happy, the communication seems good, so this is all super good stuff, yet it still makes me nervous!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
) I've been having some bad dreams and it's been hard to shake" would probably be good.
