yes, I'm quite indifferent actually. I feel kinda sorry for her, but y'know, she's a therapist. she ought to be able to see the warning flags--although he's very good at putting a very positive face out there.
she's also independently wealthy; could explain why he's paid off a lot of bills lately (joint accounts, joint statements). now he can stop feeling inferior to his brothers in regard to money. they'll be quite...comfortable.
D14 didn't want either of us to remarry--but since xH really isn't capable of living independently (and is entitled to be taken care of) that wasn't realistic, and I've tried to prepare her.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
