No we are really disconnected. I'm not from here and neither is she and our families are away from us. Her friends were from school and mine from work and she was so occupied with school the last 4 years the only social things we did we did with each other.
That is why the email and possibly Fb are so valuable and why I am trying to take full advantage of both. I could sit back and GAL and detach hoping my W makes a move and hope that I am detached enough that is will not matter when she does move (if ever). However, I would rather GAL, Detach and use counter-intuitive measures as well and anything else in the DB arsenal and at least if I fail I can say I tried.