Yep. I agree totally. That's why I said in my post that the HOW it is done is so important: wise counsel and consideration... not willy nilly.
I got what Coach was saying about not "getting through" to someone (esp a female) who is going on feelings by trying to reason. He had a good point in saying you have to validate feelings first before you can reason with someone in a disagreement. However, given the circumstances, it would've been hard to do that considering it was not the first go 'round of all of this.
