Originally Posted By: freespirit
So I have a husband of nearly 12 years who insists on taking NO responsibility for his behavior toward me; will not "hear me" and I am gone and he is still trying to accuse and name call...I am not responding.


Abusers never think they are wrong or at fault and consider themselves completely blameless. My H still pulls this crap. It's so ridiculous it's almost laughable. When he threw my stuff away he told me "you made me do that."

Really? How? I wasn't even there when he did it!