Bingo!! That is why we have said not to do it. You can play this game all day long, but ALL that really matters is what YOU and her do CONSISTENTLY. ML one day does not change years of DYSFUNCTION, CO-DEPENDENCE, and ABUSE.
DETACH, FOCUS on YOU. Why does YOUR HAPPINESS DEPEND on her?? That is the million $ question you should be asking yourself everyday. The day it stops will be the day your DETACHED.
