Wife filed for divorce...Is there still hope?

[LSG]

IDU,

Things are much better. You are so right! I have moved past some major obstacles in my sitch. I have some hard ones to come, but I will make it through them. I am more at peace, but I have a ways to go to have the kind of happiness I want.

This place has kept me going and able to deal with my day to day life in a positive way. I was able to keep my hope alive being in the company of great people like you.

Things are better, and they will keep getting better.

I appreciate your compassion and sticking with me through all that I have gone through.

[LSG]

TH,

You are right that we do not know what the future will hold. I am glad because there is always hope then.

I am glad for the perspective.

Thanks so much!

[LSG]

DLS,

Good to hear from you. It has been a while. I hope all is well for you.

Thanks for the "congratulations." I really appreciate it. It feels so good to be working and the positive comments from everyone here. I never thought the day would come. It could not have come at a better time. I am just so focused on doing a good job and learning as much as possible.

I believe that I am doing a very good job so far.

I live my life that W is gone and never coming back. I do not want any false hope. I just do not see us ever being together. A little part of me would like it to happen, but I just don't think I could ever trust here again. I really don't think I want to let myself either.

I do see myself meeting someone again someday. I just think it will be awhile because I believe that I have alot more issues that I have to deal with that I do not realize yet.

I will give it time, and if it feels right, I will go with it.

You are right that I need to someday let someone into my life again. The Affair she had was not my fault. She and I needed to cherish our M. She gave up, and I never did. I am glad that I handled the last year the way I did. I am not perfect at all, but I did not deserve what she did to me.

Live does move forward!

Do not hesitate to post to me. I like to hear from you.

Take care of yourself!

[dad1b1g]

LSG, I'm so glad that things are turning up for you. You've worked hard at this and while it may not be downhill from here, you've proven to yourself (and lots here too) that you can do this.

Congrats on the job! Keep enjoying your kids, they really make the difference in what you can handle don't they?

[LSG]

dad1b1g,

Things are going pretty well for me. Boss was really grumpy on Friday after my 4th day. I did not understand something, and he told me to use my brain. I was a little surprised at his attitude. He has been so nice for the first three days. I have been getting indications that he is this way. I guess I will have to live with it for now. It is a little stressful for the time being. I will adjust to my situation. I will never quit, and I do not intend to get fired.

I am having a great weekend with the kids. Everything will be okay for me.

I just hope that my boss will not be a pain for me. I will talk to the other employees tomorrow to see if it is me, or if he is like this with everyone. I will survive somehow.

[LSG]

Dad1b1g,

Thank you so much for being here for me.

[dsh4320]

LSG,

we are all here for you, keep doing what you know is right, even though the results arent what you want. You will prosper.

[pookie69]

I did not understand something, and he told me to use my brain.

I tell my guys that every day. Don't sweat - he is compassionate.



I would worry if he takes the task away from you and gives it to someone else.

[idontunderstand]

Agree with Pookie. You have been out of the workforce for awhile. Don't take it personal. He's trying to get you to remember how to do what you used to do every day. KWIM?

Relax and be confident. It will take a bit to get back in the swing of things. Be receptive to constructive criticism and don't get defensive. You can do this and you are on your way!

Keep it up!

[LSG]

dsh, Pookie, and IDU,

He told me my services would no longer be needed today. He would not give me a reason for it. I am now looking for a job again. This just sucks! The recruiter said that I did not seem motivated enough, but I was very motivated. I need to find a job fast.

My STBXW will give me crap over this too.

My kids are depending on me, and I have let them down too.

I don't know what my problem is. It has got to me. It can't be the rest of the world.

I appreciate your guys support to me. I just have to go out and find a job as soon as possible. I can never give up. I just am let down for the moment. No time to rest.

I guess I will go door to door to companies around me.